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Introduction
One aim of Stillpoint is to look at the needs of Buddhists and
meditators isolated by illness, and especially how to maintain a
connection to spiritual community and teachings. The needs of
individuals cover a broad range. Some are house- or bed-bound, others
can get out but struggle with mobility, pain, low energy. For some,
illness, an accident, or the increasing infirmity of old age now place
them on the outside of sanghas they were previously active within. At
the other extreme are novices keen to learn meditation to help cope
with a health crisis but struggling to reach a teacher. The aim here is
to present examples of good practice where spiritual community becomes
more accessible to such individuals.
Some Friends of Stillpoint have asked, ‘how can we include your
users more?’ Here we compile examples of good practice in making
spiritual community inclusive and accessible. The suggestions come from
a) our own experience with a range of methods typical of the voluntary
self-help sector, especially for connecting members who don’t
physically meet; and b) users anecdotal reports of positive experiences
within centres and communities.
The needs of those being cared for will vary greatly, from needing a
lift to an event, to home visits for the housebound. We can transform
the experience of people excluded from ‘normal’ social activity, as
well as embrace care and service as intrinsic to socially engaged
spiritual practice. In the process, we enrich the lives of everyone in
the community. It’s worth noting that some practitioners will also be
carers, whose support needs are also important. They can benefit
indirectly from a more widespread awareness of the real implications of
birth, old age, sickness and death on all our daily lives.
A note about resources.
We recognise that groups often operate on a shoestring and members
are often busy people, without much spare time and energy. Often
measures below have been carried out informally, by individuals in that
community. Our hope is to offer ideas for such individuals who are keen
to embrace care as part of their role in a sangha, but also to assist
communities/centres who wish to introduce access & support measures
more formally. Our users feedback suggests that the smallest gestures,
such as being made to feel that its OK to ask for help, or certain
needs being pre-empted by fellow practitioners in a group, can have
enormous impact on our experience of shared practice.
One point should be stressed in this age of multimedia technology:
just because it can be done using new technology, doesn’t mean it will
actually be the best way. The ‘technology poor’ obviously include those
unable to work, or prevented by disability from internet use, although
carers can sometimes act as intermediaries. So some of the more ‘old
fashioned’ methods are the most inclusive; however, they tend to also
be the most energy- and cost- intensive. The list below starts with the
measures that are most realistic for the average centre’s resources,
and goes on examples of systems for those with more resources to put
into outreach. If there are concerns about demand, ensure that limits
are regularly re-assessed and communicated in advance, eg explaining if
calls/visits can only be made for a specified duration (eg an hour) or
frequency (eg monthly) and adhering to that arrangement.
Four types of help for users
- Access & support within your centre
- Providing clear information
- Outreach support
- Support & contact networks
1. Access and Support within your centre
The environmental conditions affecting accessibility, and organising care for centre users
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Appoint a support contact or ‘carers group’ who can assist those with special needs. The most common difficulty reported is not knowing who to ask, and the
energy and confidence required to keep asking for help. If the
awareness of access and care issues is built into the organisational
culture and responsible individuals appointed, this makes a huge
difference. In the case of residential centres a carers’ team might
operate in turns to ensure some back up support for visitors who
require assistance. An example might be offering to collect meal trays
for less mobile participants at the canteen, to avoid standing for long
periods.
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Help with transport.
Share transport or offer lifts to meetings for those with mobility
problems, or aid those who require it to arrange lifts or taxis to and
from a venue.
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Flexible opening hours/access.
People with fluctuating energy levels may not manage evening meetings
or take part in all day/residential events. Arranging out-of-hours
access and/or wheelchair assistance could be their only chance to visit
a shrine room or obtain advice.
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Practical assistance.
Individuals attending meetings who are infirm may be sensitive to cold
or other environmental factors, unable to kneel or sit upright to
meditate, or need to leave the room/ take breaks, so the offer of
physical assistance may be welcome. At larger, residential or all-day
events, the ideal would be providing a separate area for quiet/rest,
and wheelchair hire and assistance.
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Exemptions and timetable flexibility.
Helpful examples reported include: a clearly stated exemption from
housekeeping chores for those with illness; rest periods or flexibility
regarding participation in timetabled activity; a clear written
statement at a canteen that elderly or infirm participants need to
‘jump the queue’, at one retreat.
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Flexibility regarding special dietary needs.
It is increasingly common now for caterers to incorporate wheat and
dairy free alternatives, but it is often not possible to cater for
every individual need. Access to a kitchen to prepare special food
outside normal meal times is helpful. Users have particularly commented
on difficulty making arrangements to eat fish or meat, due to lack of
awareness that vegetarians can find they need to resume fish or meat
eating, or raise their protein levels, during chronic illness.
2. Disabled access: providing clear information
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Disabled people and those with chronic illness are not a single group with uniform needs.
This does present challenges in terms of the need to be thorough,
flexible, and available for enquiries regarding the environmental
conditions of the centre and events. Users with extra needs will be
less likely to visit if they cannot obtain clear information in
advance, either from written information, or by telephone. It is not
enough to simply state that an event or location is ‘disabled
accessible’ if it has not been investigated, with a range of needs and
disabilities in mind.
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Consult with members of your community with disabilities,
those who have experienced chronic illness and carers, and invite them
to play an active role in making decisions about the centre’s
management, and the environmental conditions or timetabling of events.
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Don’t be afraid to ask new enquirers
the ways in which their illness or disability affects them or what
their needs are. Be prepared to explain over the phone the precise
details of the terrain, location, wheelchair access, seating
availability, stairs, hearing aid loop, approximate distances to walk
from car park/street, etc. If you don’t know, see it as an opportunity
to learn and improve the written information your centre currently
provides.
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A contact person or central information point
where notes are made will enable more consistency in answering
questions on access. Set down in writing the areas where improvement
can be made. Evaluate feedback from previous events or courses, respond
to previous problems that have arisen and issues that prevent some
users from attending.
3. Outreach support
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Appoint a support contact
responsible for ensuring those members who are unable to attend meetings remain connected to the sangha.
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Teachings and print/audio resources.
Provide flexible means of access to your group/centre tape library or
book shop, eg. delivery by hand or by post for those unable to visit in
person.
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Postal or email correspondence.
Send an occasional note or card to show those who have become unable to
attend meetings and are socially isolated that they are not forgotten.
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Date of Birth records, if kept alongside members’ contact details when joining your group,
provide an opportunity to send birthday cards to those who are
housebound. Isolated members are often profoundly affected by being
remembered by such gestures. A step further - postal celebratory cards
for other events on the calendar, Buddhist (Wesak or Chinese/Tibetan
new year) or otherwise (New year, Christmas).
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Home visits.
Face to face contact is extremely valuable to the housebound especially
if living alone. This can involve anything from an occasional 'social'
visit, to discussion, spiritual guidance, or sitting meditation in the
home.
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Telephone support.
Contact by telephone can be a valuable way to make someone feel
included when they have not attended meetings or meditated with others
for a long time. With some fatigue related conditions, talking at
length is difficult and exhausting. A few moments’ silence can also be
shared on the telephone, though we often forget this!
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‘Virtual’ shared meditation
- set a time or remember the isolated members during a meeting, and
invite them to meditate where they are at the specified time slot,
light a candle, etc
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Email announcement
lists mean those who cannot come to physical meeting place can feel
included in a community. Advantages and disadvantages. Reach a wider
audience, combine all members into one, yet a the same time you divide
again technology poor.
4. Support groups
The following methods are the most time-intensive and require a
committed administrator, but are extremely effective in bringing
together individuals who are totally confined to their homes, and
creating communities that, although they do not physically meet, offer
motivation and support that is usually lost with the loss of social
contact.
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Contact network. This helps friendships
develop among isolated community members. A few lines about each person
are gathered on a form and listed with their contact and chosen form of
communication - phone, email or mail. A coordinator needs to type the
details or, easier still if submitted via email they are pasted onto
the document, edited if necessary. Guidelines can be given for
security/ confidentiality. If data protection or safety is a concern,
some systems allow for complete confidentiality, eg a central person
storing the actual data, circulating names and interests, and members
simply sending an SAE to be matched with like-minded people.
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Round robin cassettes
are a simple way for very isolated and ill people to ‘talk’ to each
other and get to know each other without having to use the phone or
leave the house. Themes can be relating to meditation or spiritual
practice, updating on events attended by other members, or more general
chat. This has been successful in ME networks where users find
telephoning difficult due to unpredictable energy or their ‘good’
phases failing to coincide with ‘normal’ telephoning hours. Here’s how
it works: one person collects addresses and buys two cassettes, and
starts it off, posting it in a padded envelope with a list of
addresses, so that each individual who receives it listens to the taped
message, adds their own and sends it on to the next person. The
geographical distance in this case is not an issue.
These guidelines were compiled by Joelle Marlow, and are copyright of Stillpoint;
but may be freely copied for the purposes for which it was created: to
improve access and support for isolated Buddhists and meditators.